The Principles of Gay Body Language
How does body language affect dating? The answer is plenty. But to understand why certain postures, gestures and expressions make you more appealing to guys, you have to understand the major principles of body language.
Words lie, bodies don’t
The truth leaks out of our bodies like a pockmarked water pail. As soon as we put a finger in one hole another one opens up. You may think you look calm, cool and collected, but look down, your foot’s tapping the floor like a woodpecker. Sexual signals bounce all over the place whenever gay men get together, and they’re being sent with heads, eyes, arms, hands, legs, and feet.
Your body language changes when you see somebody hot. And you’re usually not aware of it.
Hidden camera studies show that a man’s posture changes when he sees somebody that turns him on. He, or more to the point, YOU, will:
Pull your stomach. (To look sleeker)
Throw your shoulders back (to occupy more space)
Puff up your chest (to look bigger)
Lift your head (To look taller)
Protrude your jaw (to look more dominant)
Body language doesn’t just reflect your inner emotions. It creates them.
Keeping your body language “open” isn’t just critical to changing other people’s moods and attitudes; it’s critical to changing yours. This concept doesn’t just apply to your hands or your palms; it applies to everything. The more you “fake” open and inviting gestures and expressions, the more genuinely open and inviting you’ll become.
The best way to meet and attract gay guys is to use open and inviting gestures.
Keeping your body open and inviting is so important to attracting guys. If you cross your arms, for example, you might as well spray man-repellent on yourself. This goes for any gesture or movement that forms a barrier, holding your hands together, crossing your legs, closing your knees, slouching, or holding anything that blocks your chest, heart and stomach.
If you want to meet gay men, pay attention to these principles of gay male body language. Whether you’re the pursuer or the pursued, the same principles apply. Your body language changes when you see a guy you’re attracted to, you can consciously use certain body language tactics to change your mood.
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