How to Introduce Your Partner to Your Sex Toys
This goes for both guys and girls, because as we know from CAM4 experience; toys aren’t just for girls. So you have these toys, and you love them, they work every time, and they treat you like royalty. Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, or you want to heighten the experience, you should never feel ashamed of your toys. Here’s how you can introduce even the most buttoned up partner to your toys without sending them running out the door.
1. Be mindful of their ego
When you introduce anything new to an intimate relationship, there will be questions. Don’t be a pussy, you can answer these questions with grace, right? Maybe. Assure your partner that you love their moves and that the toys are just to have even more fun. I mean, unless you guys have vibrating hands, two cocks, and buttons to control your pulsations…only non-human toys can provide these things.
2. Begin with the easy toys
I don’t know how many men have mistaken my Clarisonic face brush as a vibrator and left my bathroom freaked out. Ease them into your simplest, least threatening toys. Did you start off your sex toy collection with a 10″ thick dildo? Think about your lover as a beginner sex toy shopper – simple, easy to use, and “normal” looking. Think simplistic vibrators or average dildos.
3. Remember you’re not masturbating
Of course you’re not going to throw your lover off your bed and ravish your vibrator. You’ve done that already, maybe even this morning. But showing them that the toy is just an addition and not the main attraction will leave them open for more toy play. Who knows, maybe one day they’ll want their own 😉
4. Ask them if they’re into toys
If your partner sees you opening up about sex toys, chances are they’ll feel more open to share their fetishes and desires with you. But ask them first – it’s hot to watch someone open up, and it’s easier on them. Ask if they’d ever buy a sex toy, do they want to see your other toys, would they go sex toy shopping with you? Being open is key to all good relationships!
Honestly, there’s so many toys out there, it’d be a shame if they weren’t shared with lovers! Check out Stockroom where you can find the toy of your dreams. Have you introduced your partner to your toy drawer successfully? Share your tips in a comment 🙂
